Love your children like how you expected them to love you..

Yay, getting so much better today. It's always the early morning feel that tells you whether you are getting better or otherwise. The sun was up early this morning. The throat was clear and everything just felt right. So I guess it's recovered. After the pill last night, I just collapsed on the bed. When phone calls came in, I could hardly speak any longer coz the effect kicked in so fast and yes I took a strong medicine. Glad that it works!

I have a few topics to discuss tonight. First, I was captivated by an article published online newspaper discussing about the hospitals being the dumping grounds for the elderly. When it hit the frontpage of a major newspaper nationwide, I was like others, being dismayed by what the society is growing into. Is it really that the society has gone so low that filial piety is a word only kept in the dictionary? Then I bumped into this article: All a child needs is love and affection. I can't agree more what the writer was trying to say. Simply put it here, the writer stressed that children are not insurance policy, they are the responsibilities of the parents. I could really relate what he meant and I was touched by how he vowed to care for his kids no matter what. `

Contrary to that, there was another article speaking on low birth rate in the country and men are to be blamed. How unfair. Glad that this news does not spread to the rural areas. Also both men and women made up a pair of parents and both equivocal. There are men who take care of their children and women who don't. And producing progenies according to one's capability is the right thing to do rather than giving birth to kids who suffer the consequences later. These kids do not choose to be born into this world. It's you, the adult who decided to bring them to this world. Thus, it is your responsibility bringing them up decently including providing educations. We don't want a society that stands out in quantity but not quality! Imagine a society full with crimes and famine! So, people, family planning is important.

Why still people don't understand. It's so clear. If you can afford to have a decent big family, go ahead and be my guest. But if you bring so much sufferings to these lil beings and then expecting them to care for you when you grow old, duhh... dude, that's really not fair! Nevertheless, it's a long debate if this were to go on and on and on...

Despite feeling better after the episode of flu, I am learning to be a lil more patient. I feel it's quite trying when it comes to people challenging your patience. Mmmm...let's just embrace a broaden heart and accept the fact that people who try to hurt your feelings are simply not worth your time to think of them. Contrary to that, remember and always cherish those around you who support you no matter what.


If this was how the children were left unattended, please judge for yourself if the parents deserved anything from them when they grew up?